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OKC Bombing Remembered

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April 19, 1995 is a date forever etched in the minds of Oklahomans. 

Like other life-altering events, those affected can remember exactly where they were and what they were doing when they heard the news. 

That morning at 9:02 am a truck  that was parked in front of the Alfred P. Murrah building in downtown Oklahoma City exploded taking the lives of 168 innocent lives, including 19 children. 

Miraculously, there was a sixth month old child who survived without suffering any injuries. 

Madison Naylor was at the YMCA daycare located next to the Murrah building at the time of the incident. 

Today, Naylor is a first year medical student at the University of Oklahoma. 

In a news release from the university she is quoted as saying that even though she can’t remember the bombing, she also can’t remember a time when she didn’t know about it. 

Naylor goes on to say that she was affected when she saw the children’s chairs at the bombing memorial. 

That inspired her to want to do something good and positive with her life. 

Naylor realizes that the bombing is “still part of people’s lives.” 

Although she may not remember the bombing that changed her life forever, she has used it to fuel her desires to make the world a better place. 

Memorial Day

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Monday we will take time to remember those who have died in the service of our country.

It’s important that we never forget many have paid a great price so we can enjoy the freedoms we have today. 

Lincoln referred to these brave soldiers as those who have given the last full measure of devotion. 

It’s more than just a day off from work. 

It’s more than just a time to roast hot dogs and barbecue.

For a long time it seemed as if those activities of leisure were disrespectful. 

After further consideration, that’s possibly not the case. 

The men and women who gave their lives for freedom believed in the American dream. 

Part of being an American is enjoying freedom, each in our own way. 

In other words we get to chose how to remember and honor our fallen. 

If a friend or loved one would have wanted you to remember them by spending quality time with family then do so.

However you chose to remember them, remember them. 

Never forget!

Notre Dame Cathedral

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 One of the most famous churches in the world caught fire Monday. The church suffered major damage, including the loss of its iconic spire. 

The Cathedral of Notre Dame in Paris, the foundation which was laid by Pope Alexander III in 1163, although it took  300 years to complete. 

The name Notre Dame means “Our Lady”. 

It is the most visited monument in France. There are approximately 13 million people per year who visit the church. 

The breathtaking gothic architecture features stained glass windows and an organ that utilizes 7,800 pipes to create music that reverberates through one’s very soul. 

It literally sits at the center of Paris. There is a brass plaque stating the fact on the premises. The church is located at point zero and all locations in Paris are measured from this point. 

Notre Dame is the location of some notable moments in history. 

It is the site of the Coronation of a 10-year old King Henry VI as King of France just two years after his coronation at Westminster Abbey in 1429. 

Mary, Queen of Scots married Dauphin Francis there in 1558. 

Pope Pius VII conducted Napoleon I’s coronation there following the French Revolution. 

The Cathedral was the setting of Victor Hugo’s famous literary masterpiece, The Hunchback of Notre Dame

The cathedral claims to be the home of the actual crown of thorns that Jesus wore. 

In 2015 Andrew Tallon, a professor of art at Vassar College used lasers to scan the entire cathedral. His scan allowed for construction of a near perfect digital replica that may come in handy once reconstruction begins. 

Donations are already coming in to restore the church to its former glory. 

It’s incredible how one structure has had such an impact on a nation. 

The building itself is more than just brick and mortar. It’s a symbol of something deeper for the people of France. 

It’s as if it is the substance of the entire history of the nation. 

In a way it has become all things to all people.

The millions of people who go through it’s doors all find something inspiring and life changing. 

When flames were leaping into the sky this past Monday it wasn’t just the cathedral that was going up in smoke, it was if a piece of everyone was going up with it. 

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Whatever Happened to Civility?

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t’s non-existent. 

I’m astonished at how so-called Christians treat one another these days.

I don’t remember Jesus telling the disciples to only be nice to the people who agreed with them. 

In His “Sermon on the Mount” He did say to bless those who curse you. Pray for those who despitefully use you. 

Perhaps that was just a suggestion. I’m no longer sure. 

Year’s ago someone said the 80s was the decade of the “ME” generation. 

I honestly believe we are seeing a repeat from just a different perspective. 

“Life has to go my way or I’ll demolish and crucify those who don’t agree with me on social media” seems to be the mantra of the day. 

I feel like a person who is living in the wrong time period. 

When I was growing up I was taught to respect my elders and treat everyone in authority with respect. 

That is no longer the case. Respect is a thing of the past. 

There was a time when even ministers were honored and revered. That’s gone by the wayside as well. 

Years ago, people would talk about a kinder and more gentle society. Whatever happened to that world?

Don’t misunderstand. I’m not naive. I realize people seldom agree on everything. What am I saying? These days people seldom agree on anything. 

We used to say you could disagree without being disagreeable. That’s no longer true either. 

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe life has always been this way and I was just wearing rose colored glasses. Seeing what I wanted to see. 

Either way, we are now living in a world lacking in love. 

People are leaving the churches in droves. Is it because of the lack of civility? 

People no longer commit to civic organizations. Is it because they feel as if they don’t fit in? 

Years ago I remember writing about apathy. That was the enemy we faced. Apathy ruled and nobody cared. 

However, today things have changed. Anger is what rules and everyone is embracing it, even so-called Christians. 

In his column this week (See Minister’s Moment page 3), Mike Bates quotes Micah 6:8. “And what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God”. I think that is a great place to start.

We all understand justice. We have no problem pointing out the wrongs in society. 

It’s with the “love kindness” part we are having the struggle. 

We no longer feel the need to be kind.

The reason?

Look at the last phrase of that verse: and to walk humbly with your God..

Humility is also a thing of the past. For some reason we feel an overwhelming desire to always be the smartest person in the room. If we are not, then we try to bully the person into submission who is. 

I think I read somewhere that pride goes before destruction. 

Paul said in the book of Philippians chapter two that we were to esteem others above ourselves. In other words, “exercise some humility.” 

However, these days being humble is seen as a sign of weakness. 

Well, according to the old children’s song we learned in Sunday School, “We are weak, but He is strong.” 

Perhaps our anger is the result of not  feeling loved?

Whatever the reason it needs to stop before we devour each other. 

We are emptying our churches, our civic organizations and running people out of town. 

People no longer want to live in a world without love regardless if they realize it or not. 

Anger, hatred and bitterness are malignant cancers that feed off each other. 

Hear’s an idea. Let’s try a little civility. At least for just one week. Let’s just see if it changes how we feel. Let’s see if it changes anything. 

The Joy of Reading

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This past week I received a surprise package from Jon Harris who lives in Berkeley, California. 

Many of you know Jon was raised in the Irving community and is one the local historians who has recorded much of the history of Ryan, Irving and Jefferson County. 

The package he sent me contains various books. Some of these I know Dennis Underwood will enjoy. 

The one that caught my eye (it was also the one Jon suggested I read) was by James W. Loewen titled, Lies Across America: What our Historic Sites Get Wrong.

Although, I’m still in the early pages of this very well written, well argued text, it’s clear to me that we as human beings have grown complacent in our thinking. 

In our quest to save time, much of the news and information we consume is scaled down to 30 second sound bites. 

We are also cheating ourselves by taking everything we see and hear at face value.  

In his book, Loewen illustrates with many examples how monuments and historic sites are often designated and or erected by people who have an agenda to protect or prejudice to perpetuate. 

Sadly, many of the messages these historic sites convey are misleading or just factually wrong. 

What’s even more surprising to Loewen is the number of visitors to these sites who never question the validity of the messages they are receiving. 

I’m ashamed to confess that in times past, I have been one of those people. 

By now, most have heard about confirmation bias. This occurs when people only read and consume information that reinforces their prejudices.

 What’s even worse are those who will “make up sources” in order to confirm their arguments when debating a point of view.

So not only are we not questioning the facts that are given to us. We tend to make up our own to further our agenda. 

I can’t count the number of times, someone has cited a source to validate their argument, then I learn later their so called source was either misunderstood or simply non-existent. 

Many years ago, I was watching one of my favorite ministers online. During his very moving and well crafted sermon, he told a heart wrenching story about a young man who died tragically during the Oklahoma City Bombing. The story was very compelling and made an excellent point. 

Being a student of history and having a curiosity about the Bombing itself, I did some research to find out more about this young man. 

It didn’t take more than a few minutes of research to discover the entire story had been a fabrication. It made the rounds on social media before it was eventually debunked. The young man in question never even existed. 

It was a valuable lesson for me. 

I’d followed this minister for years and have little doubt he used the illustration in good faith, thinking it was true. However, in this case he had failed to do his homework. This is surprising considering this man has an earned PhD and was once a president of a prestigious Bible College. 

This brings me to my point. 

We all have biases and beliefs we hold on to dearly and will fight for till Jesus returns. 

That being said, it would do us all good if we would simply learn to slow down. Absorb facts and information more thoroughly. Take time to do our own (unbiased) research to verify if what we are hearing and seeing is true. 

Become a student again. Learn to read. Let your curiosity run wild. Start questioning things. Develop a true hunger for learning. 

I think that’s why I enjoy reading. It challenges me on so many levels. When you read you have to slow down. You have to think. You have to question what is on the page. You have to examine your own biases. It makes you a deeper broader person. 

So, thanks Jon. I appreciate the books. More importantly, I appreciate the lessons they are attempting to convey. 

Pick Your Battles

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 December 7, 1941 is a day that will live in infamy.

That was the day Japan bombed Pearl Harbor and officially brought the United States into WWII. Because of the unwarranted and unprovoked attack, the US really didn’t have much of a choice but to respond. Especially, since Europe was already ablaze with war. 

Unlike Roosevelt, you and I actually get to pick our battles. 

I’m not talking about going to actual war. 

I mean, if someone cuts us off in traffic we have a choice on how we are going to respond. 

Someone says something not so nice about us or our family. We have a choice on how we are going to respond. 

On any given day, we are given multiple opportunities to go to battle with individuals, groups or both. 

There is just no way we can be at constant war with the world around us and maintain our peace. 

That’s why we need to learn to pick our battles. 

I once heard a marriage counselor say those words. “Pick your battles.” 

In other words, don’t fight with your spouse over every little thing. 

“He squeezes the toothpaste tube in the middle,” you might say. Is that worth disrupting your peace and ruining your day as well as his?

“She loads the toilet paper into the dispenser wrong,” he may say.

Is that worth the aggravation and hurt feelings your complaint may cause?

Pick your battles. 

We are faced with that option several times per day. 

It’s a great strategy. 

When we are constantly combative and nitpicking all we do is cause anger in strife for those around us. 

It also disrupts our own sense of wellbeing. 

So, the next time you have the opportunity to wage war with someone, ask yourself if it is really worth the aggravation. Is the offense really that bad?

By doing so you will save yourself from going through unnecessary stress. 

We don’t always have to “one-up” each other in this life. 

Sometimes you win. Sometimes they win. Sometimes neither win. 

That’s just life. 

The benefit of picking your battles let’s you develop a reputation as someone who is always opting for peace.

Then, when you do have to confront someone, the person will take you more seriously, because they realize it must be important or otherwise you wouldn’t be bringing it up.

If you are the type who goes to war with everyone over every little thing, nobody will take you seriously, and worse than that, nobody will want to be around you. 

“Isn’t that right…..” ooops, I started to actually  say their name. 

You get my point. 

Enjoy more peace of mind with yourself and with those around you. 

Learn to pick your battles. 

Life will go easier and you be more at ease. 

Merry Christmas. 

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